Finding Community Through STEM Stars

Success is rarely achieved alone. For STEM Stars, community means having peers, mentors, and professionals who can offer encouragement, shared experiences, and support along the way. This summer, Benjamin Whatley experienced that community firsthand at his first STEM Stars In-Person Orientation in Chicago. After more than a year of connecting virtually, he finally had the chance to meet fellow Stars face-to-face and strengthen relationships that he hopes will last well beyond the program.

A few weeks ago, I attended the annual STEM Stars In‑Person Orientation (this year held in Chicago) for the first time, and if I had to choose one word to describe the experience, it would be welcoming. I’ll admit I was nervous going in; meeting people face‑to‑face after knowing them online for over a year isn’t something I’d ever done before. However, everyone was incredibly friendly, and conversations felt natural, even among stars from different grade levels, killing any previous nerves I had. Looking back, it makes sense why breaking the ice was so easy. Whether we had just finished our first year of college, survived a tough actuarial exam, or wrapped up an internship, we all had shared some type of experience that made connecting feel effortless.

I still remember my first morning at the conference (my flight came in late, so I missed the initial meet‑and‑greet the night before). One star I’d talked to online since joining the program walked right up to me during breakfast, and we immediately had a great conversation. It didn’t feel awkward at all — more like reconnecting with an old friend. From a social perspective, the orientation created an environment where friendships formed quickly and genuinely, and I know many of those connections will last for years.

Organizationally, the event coordinators did a stellar job. The orientation struck the perfect balance between professional development, social bonding, and pure fun. Even with travel delays, everything was handled smoothly and thoughtfully. We had plenty of time to explore Chicago — including seeing the iconic bean mural — and the whole trip felt more like an informal get‑together than a formal conference. Still, Milliman Day brought a strong professional component with insightful talks, company tours, mock interviews, and (of course) free merch. We also enjoyed dinners at great restaurants, including a pizza‑making class where I most definitely crafted the best pizza of all time!

Ultimately, the 2026 STEM Stars In‑Person Orientation wasn’t just an opportunity to meet other stars — it was a chance to build relationships I’ll carry with me far into the future. I’m incredibly grateful to have been part of this year’s group and to have experienced all the activities and opportunities it offered. I’m already looking forward to returning in 2028.

Ben’s experience shows how important community can be throughout the STEM Stars journey. From college and exams to internships and future careers, having people who understand the path can make a meaningful difference. The relationships built through STEM Stars help remind students that while their goals may be individual, they don’t have to pursue them alone.